Can’t we have it all? Does a girl have to be smart, sexy, OR sane? Can she propose weekend plans for Saturday and let me lead on Sunday? Will she hang tough for a session at the MOMA and then kick back over beers, mac & cheese, with cartoons?
To put it bluntly - I want an equal partner. She can have her kinks (I’ll pull the hair and slap the ass if “that’s the kind of thing that you think you might be into”) and I’ll play dominant if that’s what she’s in the mood for, but dominant gets tiring and old quickly. We need both push AND pull. I look for the same thing in women that women say they look for in men. I like to laugh, have fun, be spontaneous, lead and be led. I want it all - movies, museums, picnics, roller coasters, walks, and lazy sundays.
She has to have her own opinions on the books she’s read, the movies she’s watched, the shows she follows, and not back down when I say Bravo sucks and I can’t stand Nancy Drew. I like to banter, I like to debate, and I like to please. She wants me to pick, I’ll pick, but she better be ready to pick next.
What I want in you (is me) is someone to push me, not put me on a pedestal. Yes there is a time for both, but I’m only interested in the long run if the carrot keeps ahead of me.
(well put Mr. Knox xx AntiKris)
Fuck yeah
